In recent months, the internet has filled up with advice. Not ordinary advice — advice delivered in a particular tone, one I have come to recognise after years in this field: the tone of manufactured certainty.
"Structure your content as a FAQ and AI will cite you."
"Build topical authority and you'll appear in model responses."
"Optimise for AEO — Answer Engine Optimisation — and stay visible in the age of artificial intelligence."
I read these and find myself thinking the same thought I had ten years ago, when Romanian SEO was overrun with "experts" who guaranteed you the first page of Google within thirty days. The same tone. The same certainty. The same fundamental dishonesty about the real complexity of the subject.
Only this time, the object of all these promises is harder to verify, harder to contest, and far more tempting to believe.
Where This Anxiety Comes From
I need to say something about the context in which these pieces of advice take root — because without that context, my critique might seem like cynicism, or the snobbery of a specialist.
There is a genuine fear behind the question "how do I appear in AI responses." A fear I understand, because I live it too, in my own way.
If you are a writer, a journalist, a specialist, a consultant, or simply someone who has built something online over the past few years, you are probably watching the same spectacle unfold: people are starting to ask questions of a chatbot instead of searching on Google. And the chatbot answers. It does not send them to you. It does not cite your article. It tells the user what to do, directly, without intermediaries.
The visibility you spent years building — through articles, through SEO, through a constant presence — seems to be evaporating behind a white screen with a blinking cursor.
The anxiety, then, is legitimate. The question "how do I stay relevant?" is sincere.
The problem is that the industry — the one that sells courses, consultancy, and "proven strategies" — has rushed to fill the void with comfortable answers. Answers that sound like solutions, but which usually conceal a fundamental ignorance of, or dishonesty about, how things actually work.



